The #1 Worry I Encounter From Applicants

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For most of our applicants at Oak Hill Academy, the idea of enrolling at boarding school comes with both excitement and apprehension.  Going away to boarding school is a big lifestyle change and it is natural to have both of those emotions.  However, our parents (and at sometime during a successful application process, our students) come to realize that in order to make significant changes, one must get out of a “comfort zone” and into a significantly different environment.

Growing:  when you are transforming to a new season of life,

the people and situations that no longer fit you will fall away. 

Don’t fight the process.

I ran across this quote recently that succinctly addresses the number one worry that I encounter from students as they consider the opportunity for positive changes that enrollment at Oak Hill Academy offers.  Simply put, they worry about leaving their friends at home behind.  I want to address this issue here briefly:

  • Growth occurs outside of your comfort zone.  By definition, in order to get different outcomes, you must do things differently.  This is uncomfortable.

 

  • Throughout our lives, as we grow, the associations we make change.  A person simply cannot grow without making new relationships that expand our definition of ourselves.  Our Oak Hill Academy student body becomes very close-knit, rather quickly.  Everyone matters and has a place in our community.  You’ll make close friends.  Our students come to understand why as they redefine themselves in positive ways.

 

  • Breaks, open weekends and our school schedule mean that students have fairly frequent opportunities to reconnect with friends and family at home.  The friends that matter and support the growth you experience at Oak Hill will not disappear.  You’ll reconnect often.  The friends that do not support your growth will probably fade, and they probably should.  In the meantime, while at school, you’ll be focusing on the right things for you.

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